two things happen when you look sickly...

1) society becomes much more courteous
i get a lot more doors held for me in public places and smiles from strangers as i'm going through life hair-less and with a constant dark halo around my eyes. on one hand, i think it's wonderful that people can be so courteous and compassionate towards perfect strangers. on the other hand, i think it's about time for the world to realize that most people are facing some struggle that they don't necessarily wear on their sleeve (or in my case, head). a novel idea: let's treat everyone we meet as if they were bald, scarred, sick, or, better yet... the way we want to be treated.

2) everyone tells you that 'you look great'
c'mon, laugh; you know you have said it! i do hope you remember to tell me how great i look great every time i see you when all this is over. ;)